I have talked to many women about this topic and I feel at this point in my life I am mature enough to enlighten you on the right moves that you should make in relationships.

I’m no scientist but I know some things, first off, to my women if you want to be treated like a Queen then you have to act as such.

Men are like wolves and we love to hunt, if you make him work for the cookie he will treat you with respect, if you give him your most prized possession on the first night that’s exactly what he will use you for – sex and nothing more.

The key ladies is to find a man that loves you more than you love him, if you can do this, he will always try his best to keep you and make you happy.

I truly believe that pussy is one of the most powerful tools known to man, a man will fly, drive, or damn near swim if he has to for those few moments of passion. With this being said if you have any self-respect and you actually like the guy, you will make him wait.

Now if it’s just sex you want and you and the man are comfortable with that by all means do you, you’re grown. But if you are looking to build something with this person then it has to be more than just the physical. Make the man earn it mama now I’m not saying if you are dating that you have to go months on end but make sure that y’all are on the same page.

Be very firm and direct on what you want and what you expect out of the relationship from the beginning, also be clear on what you will not tolerate. If you open the door he will step in and never look back.

Men are very simple creatures, black and white, yes and no, it’s that easy point blank. I honestly feel once you start grasping these ideas and implementing them into your everyday lifestyle and dating arena you will see a significant shift in your favor. 

So, the moral of the story is, ladies if you command respect mind, body and soul, you will attract a King. You are a product of your environment so if you want to elevate to a higher class of men then you must love yourself first and foremost and ask God to prepare you for your husband not just a boyfriend, that way you will be ready for your King when he arrives.

All that glitters is not gold and a pair of lips will tell you anything. You are somebody and he will respect you, know your worth, a man will only go As Far as You Let Him.